As some of you know, I found out about a month ago that Carmen Doran was having an affair with a married man at her work, Simon Forsyth.

Actually, the saga goes back a bit further then that, I initially found a number of text messages from him on Carmens cell phone over six months ago. At the time Carmen denied everything and said they were just a joke and flogged them off. This is as far as I know when she started systematically lying to my face. As over the next 6 months, she had more and more excuses for coming home late, staying in to see the night shift multiple times a month, and each time I confronted her about it - I got accused of being paranoid and was driving us apart.

Then about a month ago I found more, and she admitted some things but again denied a lot. I really wanted it to work out, so we were going to give it a really good attempt at making it work, Carmen promised she would break off anything she had going on with Simon. So that brings us to today...

So Carmen was late home last night, and this afternoon Simon had sent a number messages such, 'you were so good last night' and 'I want you so bad right now' with other simpler messages of xxxxx, mul (miss you lots), looking forward to seeing you soon etc.

So having broken up, Carmen has now admitted they were together.

Not entirely sure what I am going to do, need to find somewhere to live.

Can someone forward this to Kathryn (Simons wife, so she too can know the truth as I feel she should have an informed choice whether to stay with a cheating husband).